BEFORE THEIR FIRST DAY
A little preparation can make a big difference.
Starting childcare brings lots of new experiences — new people, new routines and a new environment. Talking positively about Lakeview before your child's first day can help make these changes feel more familiar.
In the days leading up to their start, talk with your child about coming to Lakeview and the people who will be there to care for them. Keeping home routines as predictable as possible can also provide a reassuring sense of familiarity while they adjust to something new.
Sharing information with your child's educators is just as important. Let us know about their routines, interests, favourite activities, comfort strategies and the little things that help them feel secure. The more we understand about your child, the better we can support them as they begin to build relationships and a sense of belonging at Lakeview.
MAKING GOODBYE EASIER
Keep goodbyes warm, calm and predictable.
Saying goodbye can be one of the hardest parts of starting childcare — for children and parents. Some children settle quickly, while others need more time to become comfortable with a new routine. Both are completely normal.
A warm but confident goodbye can help your child understand what to expect. Let them know that you are leaving, reassure them that you will return, and allow their educator to support them as you go. Although it can be tempting to slip away while they are distracted, a clear goodbye helps build trust and predictability over time.
Try to keep your goodbye routine fairly consistent each day. It might be a cuddle, a simple phrase you always use, or helping your child connect with an educator or activity before you leave. Familiar routines can become reassuring signals that help children understand what happens next.
WHEN THEY'RE UPSET
What if my child cries when I leave?
Tears at drop-off can be difficult to see, but they don't necessarily mean your child isn't enjoying their time at Lakeview. For many children, the hardest moment is the separation itself. Once they are supported by a familiar educator and become involved in their day, those feelings often begin to ease.
Every child settles differently. Some children feel comfortable within a few days, while others need more time to build trust, understand the routine and form strong relationships with their educators.
WHAT HELPS
A calm, consistent goodbye helps your child begin to understand the rhythm of their day and what happens next.
Allow their educator to comfort and connect with them as you leave. Familiar relationships become an important source of reassurance.
Keep talking with us about how your child is settling. We can share what we're seeing and work together if they need additional support.
WE'RE HERE WITH YOU
Settling in takes time — and that's okay.
Every child finds their own way into a new routine. Some settle quickly, while others need a little more time, reassurance and familiarity.
Please keep talking with us along the way. Sharing what you're noticing at home and hearing about your child's day at Lakeview helps us work together to support them as they build confidence, relationships and a sense of belonging.
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